Hi all,
Charity had asked that I submit my farewell letter to Grandfather on this site. It had crossed my mind before she asked, but I wasn't sure if it was appropriate to do so or not. I think perhaps it is applicable to this site because it was sort of my own memorial to him and includes some thoughts on why I am so thankful for who he was...
Dearest Grandfather,
I am truly sorry that I am unable to see you in person. However, I know you are surrounded by love and prayers, and I am thankful for this. I wanted to at least make sure you knew how grateful I am for being blessed with a grandfather as amazing as you. I have been spiritually blessed by the legacy you have imparted to your children and beyond through your strength of faith, your belief in the Bible, and your desire to walk out God’s will in your own life, and your submission to doing so. Your love of family, your love of music, your enjoyment of life and the gifts God has given man… all of these played into who I have become as I person, and my life is so much richer because of them. I cherish the memories of the years I lived closer to you, and the opportunities to spend one-on-one time with you and Grandmother. Thank you for your zeal in always challenging everyone around to you to keep growing, learning, improving.
I can remember Mama saying countless times, “My dad always said, ‘If you lead a boring life, it’s your own fault’”, and if there is one thing you never were- it is boring! I remember once you bought you and Elisha and I matching white caps and red ‘kerchiefs to wear around our neck as our “uniform” so that we could pass ourselves off as “performers” when we delivered a piano through the back gate at Dollywood. We then (of course) crashed the local church service, sang a song or two and quoted some Scripture- and then we were free (literally and figuratively) to enjoy a lovely day of rides at Dollywood. What fun we had! I can’t think of anyone else’s granddad that could pull off such a clever plan.
I learned from the example you set to fight for truth and my beliefs. I learned from your example that it never hurts to ask, and sometimes surprising things occur when you find the courage to just ask. Your life showed the importance of people, the importance of a lifelong commitment to building relationships with people- family and non-family alike. I will always think of you as the great facilitator of communication- whether it was through 3-way phone calls, long-distance introductions of parties who were geographically close, or regular newsletters to family members to encourage a closer connectivity between blood relations. I remember your afternoon naps on the couch at my parent’s house amidst all the hustle and bustle of a big family. It seemed your brain could shut off for a tiny bit when your heart knew communication was occurring around you. So, my promise to you is to remember the heritage you have spent your life cultivating. I can’t think of anyone who is a better example of choosing to not lay up treasure in a place “where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal” (Matt. 6:19). You consistently built a treasury of relationships and family bonds, and the truth of God’s Word. I choose to follow your example and to remember the things that are truly important in life, and I hope and pray God gives me the wisdom and ability to pass this down to my own children, to whom I have already began to say: “My grandfather always said, ‘If you lead a boring life, it’s your own fault’”. I love you very much, my wonderful Grandfather!
Hope’s Victory Brown